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Never Say Never Until You Mean It

My all-time favorite things to say after a breakup: “I’ll never be in a relationship with a guy like him again.” “I’ll never allow someone to treat me like that.” “I’ll never fall in love with someone who doesn’t deserve me.”.” Add yours here: “I’ll never…” It’s easy to make these sweeping declarations in the … Continue reading “Never Say Never Until You Mean It”



Should I Stay or Should I Go?

The struggle between the pain of staying in your relationship and anticipating the pain of leaving can make you feel crazy. You flip flop back and forth…feeling happy and in love some days and on others, so miserable you want to crawl in bed and hide. Your head feels like you are spinning in circles … Continue reading “Should I Stay or Should I Go?”



How Do You Know You’re Ready for Dating After a Breakup?

A painful breakup isn’t easy to shake. Yet friends and family may be urging you to get back out there and have a social life, “Get out there and go on a date!” But you are leery about exploring a new relationship. It’s understandable, you might not be sure you are ready, or even if … Continue reading “How Do You Know You’re Ready for Dating After a Breakup?”



Will I Ever Find True Love?

The short answer is yes! I don’t have a crystal ball, so I can’t say when but I do know it is possible for you to find true love. If you have just left a relationship, especially one that ended with a painful breakup, it’s difficult to believe that you’ll ever find happiness again. I’ll … Continue reading “Will I Ever Find True Love?”



How Long Will It Take to Get Over Your Breakup?

Being deeply hurt by someone you love can leave you in complete anguish. Your whole life feels like it has fallen apart, the heartache never seems to end. You blame yourself. You go over and over what you could have done differently. You could have been more loving… more patient… less angry… less jealous… more … Continue reading “How Long Will It Take to Get Over Your Breakup?”



How to Get Over a Cheating Boyfriend in 5 Steps

Finding out that the man you love has cheated on you is a devastating feeling. Kind of like the wind was knocked out of you and everything starts to move slow. You can’t believe the man you trusted is now the man who has hurt you in the worst way. You may start asking yourself … Continue reading “How to Get Over a Cheating Boyfriend in 5 Steps”



Finding Value in a Failed Relationship

Ah… relationships. At times they give you a piece of heaven and sadly, there are times when they make you doubt if happiness is even possible. The pain can be unbearable when someone you love walks away from you or when due to unacceptable behaviours, by your partner, you are forced to walk away. After … Continue reading “Finding Value in a Failed Relationship”



Top 5 Mistakes Women Make in Relationships

Tiffany couldn’t believe it. She was being stood up again. What was worse, she had canceled plans with her friends in order to be available for Derrick. Now he was nearly an hour late and wouldn’t return any of her text messages. Tiffany’s friends had been telling her for quite a while that she could … Continue reading “Top 5 Mistakes Women Make in Relationships”



He Broke Your Heart…Not Your Spirit

Wanda’s alarm jolted her awake. She stretched out in bed and gathered her thoughts. Suddenly, the pain came crashing back. It wasn’t a bad dream, he really had ended it. She loved him so much, she was certain he was the man of her dreams, and now it was over. She buried her head in … Continue reading “He Broke Your Heart…Not Your Spirit”



Compromise-Yes… Settle-Never

Stephen seemed like a great guy – he had a steady job, a rocking body and no baby mama drama. At first, Sonia couldn’t believe she was lucky enough to snag him. The first few months of their relationship was like a dream. He was attentive, he always returned her text messages and he seemed … Continue reading “Compromise-Yes… Settle-Never”