When you go through a breakup and have reached the point where you are feeling good about yourself, it could be tempting to think you want to stay away from dating because of the possibility of getting hurt again. You may even ask yourself questions like: [fancy_list style=”check_list”]
- How can I not make the same mistakes in relationships?
- Should I look for a soul mate?
- How do I communicate my wants and needs without scaring him away?
- How can I be independent and date?
- Should I tell him about my past relationships?
- How will I know when I have met Mr. Right?
Don’t worry these questions are normal and only means deep down inside you want to date again. And let me just say wanting someone to share your life with is not a weakness but a desire we all have. However, the fear of what could happen can stop you from dating and finding the right relationship for you. The most important thing to do when you are dating is to trust yourself. When you trust yourself you are confident that if Mr. Wrong shows his ugly little face that you will not waste your time. Trust that if someone you are dating says or does something that make you feel uncomfortable you will address it and if it doesn’t change you will stop spending time with him. Trust that at the end of the day you know what is best for you and you have the power to make it happen.
Is there any guarantee for how long it will take you to meet Mr. Right? No there is not. But there is a guarantee that you can give to yourself that you will not allow the pain from your past relationship to take away your ability to love again.
Dating, when done right, can be a great avenue to meet new people, learn things about yourself and have fun.
If you are ready to date or how you can date with confidence, you can schedule a free 15 minute consultation today.