When we focus on the love we want but might not have, then it can be harder to see the love that we already have in our life. We may not have the perfect love that we always imagined, but we are often surrounded by so much other love from those in our life who will always be there for us.

It’s easy to overlook the love that already surrounds us. We can get caught up in longing for a perfect partner, a flawless relationship, or a fairytale ending, and in doing so, we begin to miss the quiet, steady love that shows up for us every day.

The Love that Matters

The love we want might be romantic and passionate, full of deep connection and understanding. And yes, that kind of love is beautiful and worth desiring. But it’s not the only kind of love that matters. Sometimes, love comes in the form of a friend who answers every late-night call, a parent who still checks in just to say “I love you,” or even a child who runs to you with open arms. That love is just as real. Just as meaningful. Just as worthy.

Focus on What You Have

When we shift our focus from what’s missing to what’s present, we create space to feel full again. We begin to recognize how deeply we are loved, just not always in the way we imagined. And when we honor the love we already have, we open our hearts to receive even more. Because the love we want doesn’t always arrive exactly when or how we expect it. Sometimes, it grows slowly from what’s already in front of us.

So take a moment today to look around. See the people who choose you. Hear the kindness in their voices, the care in their actions. That is love. And it is yours.