SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?
IT’S THE QUESTION GNAWING AT YOUR HEART RIGHT NOW.
Some days feel just like the beginning. You stay wrapped up like pretzels past the alarm, send an unexpected “I miss you” text, laugh yourselves into tears over dinner. Those are the days you truly feel seen and appreciated…when your closeness is like a soul-soothing balm.
But then there are the other (ever-increasing) days when you forget why you’re together. It feels like the two of you are standing on opposite sides of Mount Everest, looking up, wishing on a star that the kinks will work themselves out.
Suppressed needs and desires become constant conflicts. Criticisms get hurled across rooms and channels of communication begin to crumble. You can’t remember the last time you spent undistracted time together or you heard the words “you’re beautiful.” And before you know it, your partner is turning into someone that you no longer recognize.
Trust me, I get it. Whether miscommunication has caused your intimacy to dim or lies have started to chip away at the trust in your relationship, you’re now questioning the love that brought you and your partner together. You don’t know how much more disappointment and heartbreak you can take.
BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY.
You can fall in LOVE – all over again with marriage or couples counseling. You can have the anticipation you feel when you walk through the door and can’t wait to see your partner.
LUCKILY, THIS IS WHERE I COME IN.
I’m Suntia Smith, a Licensed Independent Social Worker & Couples Therapist in Greenville, SC who specializes in helping individuals and couples who are facing challenges in their relationship yet love each other and want to stay together.
I can help you to reconnect, rebuild trust after infidelity and resolve ongoing relationship issues with marriage and couples counseling in my Greenville, SC office.
Just give one counseling or therapy session a try – at least you’ll have peace of mind that you did everything possible to save your marriage or committed relationship.