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Breakup to Breakthrough

Every week I hear from a broken-hearted woman struggling after a breakup. The man she loved, the one she thought was THE one cheated on her. It breaks my heart to hear the pain and sadness behind her words. “Why me? Was I not enough? I loved him, how could he do this?” When you are bogged down by a

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The Secret to Being Successful

It would be great if we could envision the life we want today and tomorrow it becomes a reality. But life does not work that way. If we want a successful life, we have to put in the time and effort. The following are my four P’s of success, and they are powerfully vital to having the life you want.

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Be Irresistible and Get Everything You Want

Shondra and I were having coffee when her cell phone rang. She looked at the number and quickly declined the call. “I’m not answering that,” she shook her head and looked down. “Why not?” I asked. “It’s the bank, I’m maxed out on my credit cards. “she sighed. “What? Girl, what have you been doing? A little retail therapy is

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Be the Best You Without Him

Vanessa’s phone rang and rang – it went to voicemail, again. “Hey girl, call me back. The art festival is today, it’s gorgeous out and I haven’t seen you forever.” I hung up the call, frustrated and concerned. Vanessa and Tiffany had been friends since junior high. Vanessa was a talented artist and loved funky art festivals and gallery openings.

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Red Flags to Look For in a New Relationship

A woman’s intuition is a strong and powerful defender when it comes to choosing a high quality mate, but sometimes the lure of a new and exciting relationship can coerce us into neglecting those nagging feelings of concern. When it comes to relationship advice for women, there are pages and pages both online and off that are dedicated to finding

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When Things Fall Apart

A normal, healthy girl’s grocery cart: Non-fat yogurt Box of granola Dozen eggs OJ Three bags of salad The normal, healthy girl’s grocery cart after a bad breakup: A half-gallon of Chunky Monkey ® Three boxes of Little Debbies Crowd pleaser sized bag of ruffled potato chips French onion dip Two liters of Dr. Pepper Three bottles of Chardonnay We

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Shocking Truth Behind Celebrity Breakups

Social media, the internet and entertainment news are constantly announcing the latest celebrity breakups. I know you see the latest beautiful couple splashed across the pages of a magazine with “The shocking truth behind the split” headline, I and you may think if she can’t keep her man, how in the world would I be able to? Weren’t she thin

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