Welcome to the relationship blog

Whether you’re looking for practical advice on navigating tough conversations, insights on rebuilding trust after a setback, or tips for recognizing red flags in your relationship—this blog is your go-to resource. Here, you'll find relatable, no-nonsense content that speaks to your experiences and helps you on your journey to healing and connection.

5 Tips for Resolving Communication Breakdowns in Your Marriage

In any relationship, good communication is a must, but it’s particularly vital for your marriage. Of course, we humans are imperfect beings, and as such, we sometimes get it wrong. A bad day can make you confrontational in your interactions with your partner, and sometimes, you say some things that you don’t mean. You’re lashing out in anger or frustration. 

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5 Steps to Break Free from a Narcissistic Partner

A narcissistic partner and narcissists in general are among the most challenging partners you can have in a relationship. When it starts, you don’t know they’re a narcissist. In fact, many partners and former partners of narcissists report feeling as though they had met their soulmate.  But that impression quickly fades as the love-bombing turns into nearly constant criticism, blame,

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Heartbreak & Healing: 3 Steps to Take After a Difficult Breakup

Any adult, regardless of their circumstances, likely knows the universal feelings that accompany a difficult breakup with someone they fell in love with at some point. There are feelings of sadness, grief, and, at times, a sense of hopelessness, as you might think you’ll never find the right person for you.  These feelings are compounded when either you or your

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Embracing Change & Strategies for Breaking Free of Toxic Relationships

After you realize a relationship is toxic, it can still be difficult to reconcile your emotions related to your own role in that toxicity, and it can still be difficult to break free of your toxic partner. While it seems unbelievable, toxic relationships can be addictive in nature.  That’s why it’s vital to embrace change in yourself before you can

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The Psychological Impact of Toxic Relationships on Your Mental Health

When we think of abuse in an intimate relationship, we often think of physical abuse, but emotional abuse can have an equally disturbing effect on your mental health. In fact, research has shown that victims of toxic relationships often suffer multiple forms of abuse, and the statistics for intimate partner violence are no less than astounding.  In the United States,

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What’s The Difference Between Compromise And Settling In A Relationship?

Compromise and  Settling! Am I settling or making a compromise? I often hear this question from my counseling and coaching clients because they want to know the difference between settling and compromise. Settling In a relationship, when you betray yourself or allow others to betray who you are or your core beliefs, such as honesty, respect, reciprocity, and commitment, When

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Social Media Relationship Makes You Want A Ring. But Is Your Relationship Ready?

Another day, another Facebook engagement announcement. And then come the Instagram engagement photos followed by the YouTube wedding day videos. You can’t even go onto Pinterest without seeing rings and bouquets pass by and now social media relationships are like show off. Weddings are following you around the internet, and you can’t escape. It makes you hear wedding bells and

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Relationship tips to maintain closeness: DatingAdvice.com Interview

I was recently interviewed by DatingAdvice.com and was thrilled to be able share about my passion and relationship tips for helping couples maintain closeness. I hope you enjoy the article! Marriage Counselor Suntia Smith Inspires Individuals & Couples to Maintain Healthy Personal Relationships Suntia Smith used to work solely with women in her relationship coaching practice. She drew from her

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No, Relationship Advice Not to listen From Your Friends or Family. Here’s Why.

For some people, the world is one big support group and advice for good. They bring strangers, acquaintances and co-workers into their most personal challenges. Others are pickier, and they ask very close friends or family members to support them through their tough times. No matter who it is or how you select them, I am here to break it

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